Imagine being confused when someone asks you if you took something
personally. Authentically confused–as in, that interpretation is
actually confusing to you.

Imagine being free–finally–from the opinions of others defining
who you are.

Imagine when the sh** comes down in your life there is just the
sh** to deal with and your mind is fully in service–it is your
slave, rather than you being enslaved and imprisoned by your own
mind. I do not mean just in a specific context–personal evolution
is not context dependent as in a piece of change–but a core level
of evolution such that your natural emotional responses are more
free–in every context.

Imagine “reframing” being unnecessary–unnecessary because the
reframe is the frame that naturally arises.

Our ego and our emotions evolve in stages. Greater and greater
expanse. Ever-increasing levels of freedom. Wider and wider embrace
of all that arises–moment to moment.

This is important to you because your stage will determine how you
interpret events as well as your emotional reaction before any
re-framing can occur. In other words, it is what governs your
relationship to interacting with the world and yourself. As I like
to say, it is only important if you interact with yourself–or
others.

Let’s accelerate the process of movement through the egoic stages
so we can play more, love deeper, laugh longer–and hurt for only
as long as is necessary for us to learn what we must learn to
deepen our experience of ourselves.

And isn’t that what it’s all for anyway?

Because who we are is pure divinity. Pure Spirit. “God/dess”
manifest. Yet our particular manifestation is clouded.

As you touch your hand to your heart you may begin to feel Divinity
waiting, wanting to come out and play. Release your divinity.

Your Personal Evolution is the gateway.

Fuller, more grounded details [including when and where] click HERE.

What: Free Intro to Personal Evolution | The Evolutionary Ego
When: Tuesday May 19th, 7:15pm
Where: 582 Market Street  ||  10th Floor Conference Room  ||  San Francisco CA

Full Other-Flavored Details click  HERE.

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As a holistic practitioner, you are sensitive to dynamics that do not feel right and you truly want to be of service to your prospective clients. You correctly want to make sure they never feel pressured.

At the same time, if you have been in business for yourself for any length of time, you have come to realize that if you do not assist them in overcoming their concerns and their fears or limitations in thinking, you will never be able to assist them in realizing the life they have always wanted, dreamed of, and perhaps have come to you to assist them in finally achieving. In a sense, that is your first test as their coach, guide, or service provider in the helping industries.

At the same time, if you do not have financial sustainability, you will not be able to serve for very long before your own concerns of thriving and prospering come into play. In a word, you need to learn to SELL–but sell without compromising your values of service, contribution, and ethics.

I hated sales until I realized how necessary it was. I still begrudged it until after a decade, I developed Evolutionary Sales. A platform and system that solves all of the problems above while increasing conversion rates. A platform so clean you can be transparent with the prospective client about the motivations for each and every sales technique.

Integrating Eastern spiritual sensibilities and Western tools of influence and market economics–all coming from a platform of service and contribution.

Each and every concern most people have about sales is completely resolved by this system.

Let me give it to you for free. That is what this evening intro is about…

More details [including when and where]  HERE:
http://tinyurl.com/clbnek

In Service,

Jason

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Some of you know I have developed a comprehensive system and approach to personal evolution.

It is the most efficient as well as comprehensive approach to getting all that you want…as it goes to the core–how you relate to your self and how you relate to the events in your life.  It ripples out to all contexts. This alleviates you from running to this workshop and that workshop and never quite getting that “thing”. This is the result of 17 years of study and integration of everything from NLP to LandMark to Buddhism to Self-Esteem to the Integral movement.

How you relate to yourself and how you relate to the events in your life evolves–and it evolves through stages. This is empirically proven. The question then becomes–how to accelerate the process.

Is there something stopping you from reaching your full potential? Something elusive you can’t quite identify? Do you experience something in the way of you having the kind of life you want and deserve? Does fear, anger, sadness, shame, guilt or for some, even grief, weigh you down unnecessarily? Do you often take things personally? Do you find yourself acting in reaction against, or in continuation of the patterns your parents demonstrated?

You would like to be free from significantly negative emotional events from your past? Truly free—to such a degree you are even grateful for them? Would you like to have a greater understanding of the power of your mind and the minds of those around you?

Have you attended personal development events and found them useful, but ultimately unfulfilling? Have you experienced “transformation”, but found it ultimately unpredictable or unsustainable without a rigorous community?

Would you be interested in freeing up so much of your essence that you were able live your life’s purpose—and prosper from it?

If you answered yes to any of that, join me for this free event.
Learn how to Evolve your Self–your ego and your emotions–through the three basic stages

•Clear your past and free up that energy [for your relationships, your projects, your art, your purpose]
•Build a deep relationship to your self and learn to manage your own mind
[so you do not need someone like me in the future]
•Learn how to integrate that and tap the deep well spring of Spirit within you

Join me to find out how:::
RSVP Required
What: Free Intro to Personal Evolution | The Evolutionary Ego
When: Monday, March 30th, 7:15 pm
Where: 582 Market Street  ||  10th Floor Conference Room  ||  San Francisco CA

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[Note: While this is not a discussion of egoic development, we can not stress enough the foundational necessity of true esteem for the self for emotional freedom. So many upsets, be they anger upsets, shame, fear, etc., can be traced to a lack of esteem for the self—that is pre-rational or early-rational egoic development. From anger to shame, the variable of one’s egoic developmental stage is undeniably an important factor. But that is another discussion for another time. I have written briefly about egoic stage development and will occasionally refer to these distinctions in this discussion.]

Be sure to see parts one and two here and here, respectively.

Now that we have covered interpretations and extrapolated meanings, what of specific dynamics within each emotion? What of anger? Resentment? Guilt? Shame? What other variables lead to negative emotions aside from lower egoic development? For it is through this knowledge, using our self-reflexive awareness and meta-cognition, that we can notice these dynamics as they are happening, and choose a different path.
Anger. Anger has at least two components.

• Indicator of a crossed boundary
• Blame

Often anger is “just-ified”. That is, with respect to justice, we are “right” in being angry. Maybe someone has violated our person or property. Perhaps they have broken an agreement. Perhaps they have deceived us intentionally. We have little choice around the action of others. They will do what they do, as we are all on our own path. However, when we are angry, often we are blaming them for what they have done. This is different and separate from holding them accountable, which is appropriate, but goes further into a game of pre-rational ego.

Let’s say that I had my car stereo stolen. I come out in the morning and I notice it gone and the dashboard area around where it was previously installed is damaged. I call the police and I wait seething in my anger. “what a low-life thief”, I say to myself along with numerous other colorful expletives.

Once the police come they ask me a few questions: “Do you have a car alarm?” Yes, I tell them. “did you hear it go off last night?” No, I tell them, regrettably I did not set it last night. “Were the car locks damaged?” No, I tell them…the car was unlocked…
We can quickly see where this is going. While the crime of the stolen stereo is indeed a crime and may be punished and is an unfortunate violation of my person by the extension of my property, the responsibility is mine to lock my vehicle, set my alarm, and care that my car is secured. Once I begin to take responsibility by asking the two key questions:

• How am I responsible
• What can I learn or gain from this that will allow me to release the anger completely?

The blame will dissolve and the anger will begin to fade away. Read more…

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